For discerning upscale gents over 30 years who present to be properly groomed and possess good manners, I in turn have composed this list, if you do not feel you can adhere to my standards, please reconsider contact.

Do not be intoxicated upon greeting me. I would enjoy a glass or two with you if our date involves an extended period of time, such as dinner.

In a rare case that I may need to cancel, I will promptly let you know as soon as possible. I would expect the same courtesy from you should need to cancel or postpone.

Please do not mention or discuss sex acts, funds, or anything inappropriate via email, phone or during our meeting.

Do not offer to date me or spend time with me without compensating me for it. Our chemistry may very well be wonderful, however that does not change the fact that this is a business.

Please do not attempt to ask me to practice anything unsafe.

After our date, sending me a little note is a nice way of letting me know you've enjoyed my company...besides I will know you have been so gracious as to have read this!